Love, Life, Soccer And Crazies!

Just a few people who have made me laugh, made me feel love, made me smile, taught me about life, taught me how to live life even though sometimes you never have anybody, taught me how to be sensible and so many...

Owe myself especially to Aishwarya, Vaishnavi, Preethi, Jessy and Tahseen(whose 'proper' pics are not with me :-) )

Thanks to Madhu who got myself back. :-)

A special thanks to Shamini, Joice,  Aishwarya(another one :D), Gayathri, Yamini, Niji, Joel and Kadheer for the lovely moments :-).

Thanks to my cousins Saranya, Nandhini and Indira for the unconditional support at all times.

Thanks to my ever green school mates for being there still.

Thanks to Karthik, Sounder, Ashwin, Surrender and Gopi for sticking me in college.

Thanks to Mr.Ravi and Mrs.Uma for bringing me to Earth.

Thanks to my Brother Sai for making me feel 'Family'.

And finally, Thanks to myself and God for having so many people of different kind around me. Thank God for all his works and a lot for all the lessons and blessings all through my life till now. :-)

People! It may seem too much for me to speak about this but believe me. I have reduced 14 kilos in 3 months by altering few things.

1. Avoid carbohydrates.

The reason for this is fat is easily combustible. U lose fat even when u walk. But its not the case with carbohydrates. It accumulates. A lot. The reason we(I mean fat people) have side flaps and belly is because of this. It is this which is very hard to reduce. So, avoid carbohydrates. By all means.

P.S: This is one thing which I've found to be very hard even though I've reduced so much!

2. Simple exercises.

A) If u live in a place with stairs, jog up and down the stairs for 10 rounds minimum or maximum depending upon ur capacity for 3 rounds.

This is a very useful exercise. It helps to burn the fat in calf muscles and also in ur lower belly.

B) Do this abdomen exercise.

Do this exercise for 3 rounds at an interval of 7 minutes.

Note: Switch off the fan while doing!

C) Do push ups regularly in the morning

D) Do all these exercise early morning or possibly in empty stomach.

3. Avoid Junk foods.

COMPLETELY! Avoid everything!

P.S: This has also been a tough one for me so far.

4. Maintain this diet schedule.

Morning: Have Oats in hot water. Add some salt, and take it. Note: It will be extremely disgusting but the best fat burner ever.

Noon: Have chapati or any wheat products. Along with plenty of fruits. No banana, mango, butter fruit, guva. Possibly have watermelon, papaya(the best), apple, grapes.

Evening: Have fruits again. Along with wheat bread sandwich.

Night: Sambha rava(Wheat rava) as 'Upma' (south Indian dish) or as boiled in the way rice is made. Eat anything along with it. Rasam, Kozhambu etc. Avoid vegetables like potato, any ground based vegetables, brinjal. (They are harmful for health)

5. Wish me Good Luck too as I plan to start everything from the beginning. :)

Answer: Not really. In my case, certainly not.

We all, each and every one of us join college with the wildest and happy dreams about it. Does we get to live our dreams?

Most of the time, it doesn't. Not one bit. Why don't they? Is it because of our college? Or because of our class? Friends? Or is it because of our self?

I think each and everyone of these do their part. Considering myself, I hated my college days. In fact, I started to despise it so much from the very beginning of my 1st year. Why? So many reasons.

First, I set my mind that I would never like this college even before starting to attend my classes. Second, I was such a duffer that I couldn't get anyone to call as friends. Third, myself.

And I am sure, many of people out there are just like me. I am sure. Not exactly like me, but with reasons as myself.

My college mates, in other departments enjoyed their life very well even though they are in the same college as mine. And I've heard vice verse too. Why?

As I end my 4 years of college life, I begin to realize why...

Only because, its our dreams. More than dreams, we can say expectations. All expectations invariably lead to disappointments. All....

"It is impossible to please everyone in this world and like wise, it is also impossible for everyone to please us."

Live life without expectations, live life for urself.

ADVISORY WARNING: This can be extremely boring and can bore you more if you think about it.

Where to begin this controversial topic... And oh yeah! Its a big time subject of debates and opinions. Why am I talking about it now? Well, its because something that I have seen through in my exiguous 15 years of life as I know it. The question that has always prevailed within me and in the society is---> Can women do everything that men do? Is it alright if they do?

Answer to this question is not a simple Yes or No. Its much larger than that. At one side, we can say yes. women can do anything men can do. Why not? Why can't they? They have the courage and willpower to build castles or steal one's heart. Women have achieved miracles much more than what men have done. We have seen great leaders like Indira Gandhi and great heroes like Kalpana Chawla. The best attribute about women is that they are less prone to corrouption and their will power to withstand any problems they face. The also have the tender nature of helping everyone in distress. Blah blah blah...

And the other side of the question, No. Its complicated to explain. Much, much, much complicated. Bascially, to begin with, there are a few things that only men can AND should do and the same goes for women too. Else not, why should God create men and women separately whilst he could have simply created Hermaphrodites in the beginning itself. For instance, a guy can wear just a vest and a boxer and roam around his neighbourhood. A women.. ah well.. not advisory. Because not all of them in this world are good and.... well... I hope you people get the point. Similarly, when it comes to sex, no matter how many times a guy has sex, nobody says anything. Instead he gets a dumbf*** fame only. Its stupid I know. Even his friends, don't make a big issue about it and so doesn't majority of girls. But when a women, even if she has sex once, and loses her virginity, everyone, I mean EVERYONE, makes an issue out of it. She faces the worst treatment. Unless and until she accepts she a h** or don't give a f*** about it, she is in misery. P.S: This situation prevails in India only. India, because of its culture and so called tradition, becomes the root of this. Only broad minded people can accept them the way they are I am proud to say I am one of them. Even so, taken in extreme cases, consider this.. Almost every guy in this world masturbates. Almost everyone. But, can a girl do that? Often? How does it sound like? In this issue, women just cant justify, "why should boys have all the fun?". Most of the *Indian women would even find this disgusting.

There is no full stop to this topic as there is no full stop to our mind and of course, boredom. :)

Life... Its the most beautiful thing ever to exist in this world. Fortunately or unfortunately, it is full of thrills and sorrows, ditches and meadows , ups and down.. bahh! Why's am I being philosophical all of a sudden? Life- Never think about past, party for now and don't worry about what our future holds. Past is there in everyone's life to learn and if you are a bad learner, thats why everyone's got friends. Tragedies and miseries in the past are to laugh and smile when we think of them in the future. Future is all about ourself. Remember, we are always alone. Even when you die and you are off to cemetery, you are alone. What we try to do our whole life is to earn a few people who would miss our absence and shed a few tears for us. Blah blah... The past and the future are really borin. In simple- Learn from the past and simply decide about the future. :)

What matters now is the Present. It is a gift unlike no other. Still, many, including me, F*** up present in all possible ways. Here's what I think is a better way to live the life through present.
Rule number 1: Never regret what you are doing now. Because whatever your are doing now is solely your choice and don't regret about it later. Even if your are slumping around in the corner and having a sip of coke and wasting time, feel proud that you have time to waste and coke to sip because not even 60% of people out there enjoy that as much as you do.
Rule number 2: Always be satisfied with what you have. If you have, a Yamaha R1 now and you see an AD of Ducati on the TV, don't even get the thought 'Damn, why didn't I have that?'. That cos you have this already dumbhead. P.S: No offence meant :).
Rule number 3: What ever you are doing now, make sure it never hurts another person. It need not necessarily be productive for others, but no harm is to be done.
Rule number 4: Keep smiling at all the times. No matter what situation it is, just keep smiling. It is the most basic and lethal weapon everyone posses. ;).. Smiling helps you over come everything and anything. For instance, you get your a** yelled at by parents or buy your girl friend/boy friend, smiling does all the magic for you. And smile if you are in misery because that is also a part of life just like a salt is for a tasty meal :).
Rule number 5: Always love. The universal rule that needs no explanation. :)