Love, Life, Soccer And Crazies!

ADVISORY WARNING: This can be extremely boring and can bore you more if you think about it.

Where to begin this controversial topic... And oh yeah! Its a big time subject of debates and opinions. Why am I talking about it now? Well, its because something that I have seen through in my exiguous 15 years of life as I know it. The question that has always prevailed within me and in the society is---> Can women do everything that men do? Is it alright if they do?

Answer to this question is not a simple Yes or No. Its much larger than that. At one side, we can say yes. women can do anything men can do. Why not? Why can't they? They have the courage and willpower to build castles or steal one's heart. Women have achieved miracles much more than what men have done. We have seen great leaders like Indira Gandhi and great heroes like Kalpana Chawla. The best attribute about women is that they are less prone to corrouption and their will power to withstand any problems they face. The also have the tender nature of helping everyone in distress. Blah blah blah...

And the other side of the question, No. Its complicated to explain. Much, much, much complicated. Bascially, to begin with, there are a few things that only men can AND should do and the same goes for women too. Else not, why should God create men and women separately whilst he could have simply created Hermaphrodites in the beginning itself. For instance, a guy can wear just a vest and a boxer and roam around his neighbourhood. A women.. ah well.. not advisory. Because not all of them in this world are good and.... well... I hope you people get the point. Similarly, when it comes to sex, no matter how many times a guy has sex, nobody says anything. Instead he gets a dumbf*** fame only. Its stupid I know. Even his friends, don't make a big issue about it and so doesn't majority of girls. But when a women, even if she has sex once, and loses her virginity, everyone, I mean EVERYONE, makes an issue out of it. She faces the worst treatment. Unless and until she accepts she a h** or don't give a f*** about it, she is in misery. P.S: This situation prevails in India only. India, because of its culture and so called tradition, becomes the root of this. Only broad minded people can accept them the way they are I am proud to say I am one of them. Even so, taken in extreme cases, consider this.. Almost every guy in this world masturbates. Almost everyone. But, can a girl do that? Often? How does it sound like? In this issue, women just cant justify, "why should boys have all the fun?". Most of the *Indian women would even find this disgusting.

There is no full stop to this topic as there is no full stop to our mind and of course, boredom. :)

Life... Its the most beautiful thing ever to exist in this world. Fortunately or unfortunately, it is full of thrills and sorrows, ditches and meadows , ups and down.. bahh! Why's am I being philosophical all of a sudden? Life- Never think about past, party for now and don't worry about what our future holds. Past is there in everyone's life to learn and if you are a bad learner, thats why everyone's got friends. Tragedies and miseries in the past are to laugh and smile when we think of them in the future. Future is all about ourself. Remember, we are always alone. Even when you die and you are off to cemetery, you are alone. What we try to do our whole life is to earn a few people who would miss our absence and shed a few tears for us. Blah blah... The past and the future are really borin. In simple- Learn from the past and simply decide about the future. :)

What matters now is the Present. It is a gift unlike no other. Still, many, including me, F*** up present in all possible ways. Here's what I think is a better way to live the life through present.
Rule number 1: Never regret what you are doing now. Because whatever your are doing now is solely your choice and don't regret about it later. Even if your are slumping around in the corner and having a sip of coke and wasting time, feel proud that you have time to waste and coke to sip because not even 60% of people out there enjoy that as much as you do.
Rule number 2: Always be satisfied with what you have. If you have, a Yamaha R1 now and you see an AD of Ducati on the TV, don't even get the thought 'Damn, why didn't I have that?'. That cos you have this already dumbhead. P.S: No offence meant :).
Rule number 3: What ever you are doing now, make sure it never hurts another person. It need not necessarily be productive for others, but no harm is to be done.
Rule number 4: Keep smiling at all the times. No matter what situation it is, just keep smiling. It is the most basic and lethal weapon everyone posses. ;).. Smiling helps you over come everything and anything. For instance, you get your a** yelled at by parents or buy your girl friend/boy friend, smiling does all the magic for you. And smile if you are in misery because that is also a part of life just like a salt is for a tasty meal :).
Rule number 5: Always love. The universal rule that needs no explanation. :)

Love- that is one exam we always fail or score low marks. And no re-test is going to help us because its a once-in-a-lifetime-exam. Well, on that one particular individual only that is ;). A lot of people find it tough to come outta the first love they experience. And yes, it is tough. It is because its the feeling of 'First'. The first touch, the first hug, the first 'butterflies in your heart', the first kiss, the first warmth, the first holding of hands, the first exchange of hearts. These feelings are more sharper than a butcher's knife that it leaves an imprint in your heart forever. Well, cut it out! We have to get over it. Basically, its guys who are more affected and hurt than girls when a love fails because, girls are strong and mature. If she starts to hate an object, there is nothing in the world except for herself to stop doing that. Note: Exceptions applicable. There are somethings in this world that can help us get over the first love- Friends and money. Friends- i don't think i need to tell you about this one :). Money, well, all you people might think "shit thats not true atall". Actually, it is a reality, neither true nor false. There's a saying- 'Its always nice to cry inside a Benz car rather than cry on a cycle'. Yes it is a reality. There use d to be a time, when money might not bring friends. Its the heart and love that brings 'em. Well, hop on lads. That time is over. Its a one for oneself world and none is ready to hear your miseries out especially your love-broken heart. And.. I can keep on writing. I know that the whole post is pointless, but.. I am still writing this because there are a lot of pointless people out there in this point less world. ;)