Relationship!

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How to get a perfect partner and maintain a perfect relationship?

If you are out there thinking of this question, which I presume almost all have, remember this one thing-None is perfect in this world. We assume that the one we get or the one we've got is perfect. This assumption only leads to a peaceful life. We never get a person of our type no matter what we search in this world. Always remember that for a relationship to be smooth, three things are necessary- Compromise, adjusting and acceptance. No matter what or who the person is, if we want to live with that person, we have to compromise and you have to adjust when someone wants to be with you. Accepting your partner as who she/he is vital for a relationship to last. As no Chewing Gum is meant to have long lasting flavor, no relationships are meant to last long. Either it ends in broken hearts or ultimately marriage. The sense of perfect partner changes with sex and each sex has a different though or idea about perfect partner.

For guys, uhmm well its complicated. Guys in relationships are generally dipshits. Being a guy, I can assure u of this. Mistakes guys do and their character they need to change- Guys need to be assured constantly that his girl loves him. This is so wrong. The feeling of mistrust or insecurity comes into play in this. It may sound pleasing to us when our girl says 'I love you' all the time, but please... It annoys them. Next, most of the guys forget the feeling of freedom that we need to give to our girl. Especially when in relationship, girls wish for the feeling of freedom a lot more than before.You need to accept then as they are and you need to make them feel the warmth of your love instead of hardboiled cage of love. The next important thing is, don't ever try to make her feel jealous. Ever! It always ends up in failure, either she gets annoyed or she gets p***ed off. Next, please.. never have high expectations towards a girl. Don't ask her or force her to speak with you and be with you all the time because girls get easily bored. Easily.. Make them laugh at times with jokes and sarcasm and deliver romantic dialogues in between them. Make sure they smile all the time. But never comment about a girl's appearance. She is damn sensitive in that. Make sure you always compliment about her looks and dress. Make sure you select a dress for her in the color she loves. Don't take her to action movies and amusement parks. The former is very guyish and the latter is for old age. Take her to parks or beaches where you can spend time with her. And accept a girl for who she is and never try to change her. Always assure her that she can stay like this and there is no need of change in her character. Introduce her to your friends as your princess. Always say she is cute rather than pretty or beautiful. And finally, If it comes to a point in the relationship that she can throw away anything and everything for you, you are the winner.

For girls, first, don't ever doubt a guy in a relationship. Trust him completely. A guy, loves hugs more than kisses. Make sure he gets enough. Next, girls.. You all are as fragile as the petals of a flower and as strong as Steel. Don't let your guy hurt you by any means. Never expect highly from a guy because he is such a douche bag in relationship. He would always fail your expectations when you have them high. Be satisfied with him and don't complain to him like 'why are u like this or why won't you change' and sort of. Leave all this questions for the after marriage life. And try to avoid telling your problems to him. Cuz most of the guys don't care while some pretend to care. You girls are strong. You can face and solve any problems in your life including guys. And don't keep anything in your heart when in relationship. If you have any anger or doubt or questions, shoot them out right away. It will solve a lot of problems. Believe me... And don't be sarcastic to a guy. He hates sarcasm when it comes to relationship. Crack jokes, make fun of him, but never be sarcastic when he says something. Listen to him a lot. Basically, its the girls who suffer more when a relationship ends and also come out soon when it ends. Next, never be dominant over them. It really annoys them. Ask them for permission to do each and every single thing. That makes them really happy. Note: you need not necessarily follow them ;). And also, don't lie to a guy. He hates lies. If you are about to lie, make sure you cover your tracks and he never finds out. Introduce him ONLY to your best friends. And keep whatever that happens between you two within yourself. Don't let your friends interfere. Its dangerous. Mostly he might get annoyed a lot or if he's a jerk, you might lay your friend in trouble. And also, never give into his demands when it comes to physical intimacy. Always stay ahead and have a control over this subject. Stay safe and love forever :)

Another pointless post and thats all for now buddies,

See you in the next post. :)